Narcissists Use Information Against You
Thoughtful questions make us think that the speaker is thoughtful, too. That’s why narcissists ask all kinds of “thoughtful” questions at the beginning of a relationship. You assume they’re “getting to know you”…. When in reality, they’re “sourcing” you for...
Narcissistic Delusion
Narcissists often seem “out of touch” with reality. And this isn’t just because of their gaslighting and denial. It’s also because they can be incredibly delusional! The most obvious way you see this is through their “delusions of grandeur”. They think they’re:...
The Perfect Candidate for a Narcissist
Narcissists are on the hunt for people with specific behaviors and traits. This is because their difficult and antagonistic personalty style means that they’re not very “agreeable” or “easy going”. So they need certain types of people around them in order to behave...
Narcissists Believe Everything is For, Against or About Them
Narcissists are incredibly egocentric. Meaning they believe everything is FOR, AGAINST, or ABOUT them. This is KEY to understanding why you feel GUILTY so often in narcissistic relationships. For example, if you grew up in a narcissistic household, you didn’t learn...
The Subtle Ways Narcissists Reveal Themselves
You don’t have to wonder for too long what a narcissist is up to. Because even though they can be skilled at manipulation and deceit – They can’t stop themselves… from being themselves. Which means they will continue to: Deflect. Project. And Redirect....
Chelsey Brooke Cole is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, speaker, and coach specializing in narcissistic abuse and relational trauma. Praised as "Enlightening and Empowering" Chelsey's new book, If Only I'd Known! How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth is available wherever books are sold.
