Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Have You Tried Everything To Improve Your Relationship –
and it’s still not enough?
Spoiler: the problem probably isn’t you
Have You Tried Everything To Improve Your Relationship –
and it’s still not enough?
Spoiler: the problem probably isn’t you
Have You Tried Everything To Improve Your Relationship –
and it’s still not enough?
Spoiler: the problem probably isn’t you
You’ve tried everything to make this relationship work.
But nothing seems to make it better.
In fact, this person is convinced (and frequently tells you), the problem is you.
And part of you believes them.
You’ve often had the feeling that you’re not enough.
You’ve struggled with self-worth and self-trust.
A gnawing feeling of guilt permeates your days.
But another part of you isn’t so sure.
You wonder:
Am I really that bad at communicating?
Is my memory really failing me that much?
Am I truly that difficult to get along with?
After all, you’ve always felt like something is “off” about this person.
They shift from hot to cold without warning.
They frequently deny things they said and did.
They blame you for the way they react.
They make subtle jabs at you, but deny it if you bring it up.
So you’re just not sure: Is it them… or me?
You’ve tried everything to make this relationship work.
But nothing seems to make it better.
In fact, this person is convinced (and frequently tells you), the problem is you.
And part of you believes them.
You’ve often had the feeling that you’re not enough.
You’ve struggled with self-worth and self-trust.
A gnawing feeling of guilt permeates your days.
But another part of you isn’t
so sure.
You wonder:
Am I really that bad at communicating?
Is my memory really failing me that much?
Am I truly that difficult to get along with?
After all, you’ve always felt like something is “off” about this person.
They shift from hot to cold without warning.
They frequently deny things they said and did.
They blame you for the way they react.
They make subtle jabs at you, but deny it if you bring it up.
So you’re just not sure: Is it them… or me?
You’ve tried everything to make this relationship work.
But nothing seems to make it better.
In fact, this person is convinced (and frequently tells you), the problem is you.
And part of you believes them.
You’ve often had the feeling that you’re not enough.
You’ve struggled with self-worth and self-trust.
A gnawing feeling of guilt permeates your days.
But another part of you isn’t
so sure.
You wonder:
Am I really that bad at communicating?
Is my memory really failing me that much?
Am I truly that difficult to get along with?
After all, you’ve always felt like something is “off” about this person.
They shift from hot to cold without warning.
They frequently deny things they said and did.
They blame you for the way they react.
They make subtle jabs at you, but deny it if you bring it up.
So you’re just not sure: Is it them… or me?
Two people can’t have such different versions of reality, and both be right.
You don’t want to “think badly” about someone you love, but at the same time, you’re exhausted.
From the crazy-making conversations,
the conflicts that never get resolved,
the confusion over what’s ‘real.’
You just want to know how to fix it.
Yourself. The relationship. The tension.
And in some ways, you can fix it—but not in the way you’re thinking.
You see, if you’re reading this, there’s a good chance that you’re not the problem at all.
In fact, there’s a good chance the real problem is that you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.
Two people can’t have such different versions of reality, and both be right.
You don’t want to “think badly” about someone you love, but at the same time, you’re exhausted.
From the crazy-making conversations,
the conflicts that never get resolved,
the confusion over what’s ‘real.’
You just want to know how to fix it.
Yourself. The relationship. The tension.
And in some ways, you can fix it—but not in the way you’re thinking.
You see, if you’re reading this, there’s a good chance that you’re not the problem at all.
In fact, there’s a good chance the real problem is that you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.
Two people can’t have such different versions of reality, and both be right.
You don’t want to “think badly” about someone you love, but at the same time, you’re exhausted.
From the crazy-making conversations,
the conflicts that never get resolved,
the confusion over what’s ‘real.’
You just want to know how to fix it.
Yourself. The relationship. The tension.
And in some ways, you can fix it—but not in the way you’re thinking.
You see, if you’re reading this, there’s a good chance that you’re not the problem at all.
In fact, there’s a good chance the real problem is that you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.
And narcissists always make you feel like YOU
are the problem.
Like it’s YOUR fault.
Like YOU’RE not enough.
Like it’s YOUR responsibility.
And after a while, you start to believe them.
So you take responsibility.
You read all the books.
You listen to all the podcasts.
You go to therapy.
You try harder.
But nothing helps.
And narcissists always make you feel like YOU
are the problem.
Like it’s YOUR fault.
Like YOU’RE not enough.
Like it’s YOUR responsibility.
And after a while, you start to believe them.
So you take responsibility.
You read all the books.
You listen to all the podcasts.
You go to therapy.
You try harder.
But nothing helps.
And narcissists always make you feel like YOU
are the problem.
Like it’s YOUR fault.
Like YOU’RE not enough.
Like it’s YOUR responsibility.
And after a while, you start to believe them.
So you take responsibility.
You read all the books.
You listen to all the podcasts.
You go to therapy.
You try harder.
But nothing helps.
There Is A Reason Why Nothing You’ve Ever Tried Has Worked
1. Conventional wisdom does not work in narcissistic relationships.
Narcissists play by different rules and have starkly different motivations than you do, something conventional wisdom does not account for. Following traditional advice on ‘how to communicate better’ does not word – and can even make things worse.
2. You keep positively projecting onto the narcissist.
You assume the motives of a narcissist are similar to yours. But they’re not. When you operate from this false assumption, you’re putting yourself into a vortex of crazy-making you’ll never be able to make sense of.
3. Even if you do accept that you’re dealing with a narcissist, most resources out there don’t get past explaining the narcissist’s behavior, leaving you to ask: but what do I do now?
What does it mean to be in a narcissistic relationship? How should you show up differently? Should you leave, or stay? How do you draw boundaries?
Here’s the truth…
It’s not possible to “fix” a narcissistic relationship — because you can never fix the narcissist.
But that doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck.
There Is A Reason Why Nothing You’ve Ever Tried Has Worked
1. Conventional wisdom does not work in narcissistic relationships.
Narcissists play by different rules and have starkly different motivations than you do, something conventional wisdom does not account for. Following traditional advice on ‘how to communicate better’ does not word – and can even make things worse.
2. You keep positively projecting onto the narcissist.
You assume the motives of a narcissist are similar to yours. But they’re not. When you operate from this false assumption, you’re putting yourself into a vortex of crazy-making you’ll never be able to make sense of.
3. Even if you do accept that you’re dealing with a narcissist, most resources out there don’t get past explaining the narcissist’s behavior, leaving you to ask: but what do I do now?
What does it mean to be in a narcissistic relationship? How should you show up differently? Should you leave, or stay? How do you draw boundaries?
Here’s the truth…
It’s not possible to “fix” a narcissistic relationship — because you can never fix the narcissist.
But that doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck.
There Is A Reason Why Nothing You’ve Ever Tried Has Worked
1. Conventional wisdom does not work in narcissistic relationships.
Narcissists play by different rules and have starkly different motivations than you do, something conventional wisdom does not account for. Following traditional advice on ‘how to communicate better’ does not word – and can even make things worse.
2. You keep positively projecting onto the narcissist.
You assume the motives of a narcissist are similar to yours. But they’re not. When you operate from this false assumption, you’re putting yourself into a vortex of crazy-making you’ll never be able to make sense of.
3. Even if you do accept that you’re dealing with a narcissist, most resources out there don’t get past explaining the narcissist’s behavior, leaving you to ask: but what do I do now?
What does it mean to be in a narcissistic relationship? How should you show up differently? Should you leave, or stay? How do you draw boundaries?
Here’s the truth…
It’s not possible to “fix” a narcissistic relationship — because you can never fix the narcissist.
But that doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck.
What if you could…
→ Get a text from your ex that didn’t leave you spinning for days
→ Send a text to your coparent without getting triggered by their response
→ Interact with your mother without feeling completely depleted for the next week
→ Shrug off a passive aggressive comment from your boss instead of feeling sick and guilty the rest of the day
→ Leave a conversation with your spouse without drowning in self-blame and overthinking every word
→ Set unshakeable boundaries that protect and respect your mental health and wellbeing
What if you could…
→ Get a text from your ex that didn’t leave you spinning for days
→ Send a text to your coparent without getting triggered by their response
→ Interact with your mother without feeling completely depleted for the next week
→ Shrug off a passive aggressive comment from your boss instead of feeling sick and guilty the rest of the day
→ Leave a conversation with your spouse without drowning in self-blame and overthinking every word
→ Set unshakeable boundaries that protect and respect your mental health and wellbeing
What if you could…
→ Get a text from your ex that didn’t leave you spinning for days
→ Send a text to your coparent without getting triggered by their response
→ Interact with your mother without feeling completely depleted for the next week
→ Shrug off a passive aggressive comment from your boss instead of feeling sick and guilty the rest of the day
→ Leave a conversation with your spouse without drowning in self-blame and overthinking every word
→ Set unshakeable boundaries that protect and respect your mental health and wellbeing
Hi, I’m Chelsey, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in narcissism and narcissistic abuse recovery.
I’ve spent a decade and thousands of hours working with clients who felt trapped in narcissistic relationships with romantic partners, parents, family members, bosses, coworkers and people of all kinds.
Over the years, I’ve witnessed and personally experienced the profound effects of narcissistic abuse. I’ve watched it impact my clients on every level — cognitively, emotionally, behaviorally, and physiologically.
But I also started noticing similar themes in how my clients were able to heal from these toxic relationships.
Over time, a clear pattern emerged.
Clients who had been stuck for years began developing resilience, regaining self-trust, and setting unwavering boundaries as a result of our time working together.
Leaning on years of clinical insights and my own healing, I took the patterns I was seeing and plotted out a roadmap to comprehensive healing from narcissistic abuse.
I packaged all of it into a program that helps survivors take back their life and become unshakeable against the narcissist’s attacks.
Hi, I’m Chelsey, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in narcissism and narcissistic abuse recovery.
I’ve spent a decade and thousands of hours working with clients who felt trapped in narcissistic relationships with romantic partners, parents, family members, bosses, coworkers and people of all kinds.
Over the years, I’ve witnessed and personally experienced the profound effects of narcissistic abuse. I’ve watched it impact my clients on every level — cognitively, emotionally, behaviorally, and physiologically.
But I also started noticing similar themes in how my clients were able to heal from these toxic relationships.
Over time, a clear pattern emerged.
Clients who had been stuck for years began developing resilience, regaining self-trust, and setting unwavering boundaries as a result of our time working together.
Leaning on years of clinical insights and my own healing, I took the patterns I was seeing and plotted out a roadmap to comprehensive healing from narcissistic abuse.
I packaged all of it into a program that helps survivors take back their life and become unshakeable against the narcissist’s attacks.
Hi, I’m Chelsey, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in narcissism and narcissistic abuse recovery.
I’ve spent a decade and thousands of hours working with clients who felt trapped in narcissistic relationships with romantic partners, parents, family members, bosses, coworkers and people of all kinds.
Over the years, I’ve witnessed and personally experienced the profound effects of narcissistic abuse. I’ve watched it impact my clients on every level — cognitively, emotionally, behaviorally, and physiologically.
But I also started noticing similar themes in how my clients were able to heal from these toxic relationships.
Over time, a clear pattern emerged.
Clients who had been stuck for years began developing resilience, regaining self-trust, and setting unwavering boundaries as a result of our time working together.
Leaning on years of clinical insights and my own healing, I took the patterns I was seeing and plotted out a roadmap to comprehensive healing from narcissistic abuse.
I packaged all of it into a program that helps survivors take back their life and become unshakeable against the narcissist’s attacks.
IT’S TIME TO GET UNSTUCK with:
Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Inside this program, you’ll learn the keys to reclaiming your life and yourself:
Understand what actually motivates narcissists and how they think differently than you do {so you can stop going crazy trying to make sense of why they do what they do}
Discover the ways you’ve been deeply affected by the narcissist in your life and learn why it’s not your fault {so you can let go of the shame and self-blame}
Regain a sense of self and get reacquainted with YOU {even if you feel you’ve completely lost yourself in this relationship}
Gain insight into your own triggers, as well as where those overwhelming emotions come from {so you can extend kindness to yourself as you learn how to manage them effectively}
Release false responsibility and chronic guilt over why your relationship isn’t working {even if the narcissist blames you for everything}
Take your power back and set boundaries with the narcissist in your life {even if you’re naturally conflict-avoidant}
Grow in self-trust and your ability to spot narcissistic behavior {so you can stop doubting yourself and questioning your reality}
Learn the only communication strategies that work with narcissists {so you can stop overthinking every conversation}
IT’S TIME TO GET UNSTUCK with:
Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Inside this program, you’ll learn the keys to reclaiming your life and yourself:
Understand what actually motivates narcissists and how they think differently than you do {so you can stop going crazy trying to make sense of why they do what they do}
Discover the ways you’ve been deeply affected by the narcissist in your life and learn why it’s not your fault {so you can let go of the shame and self-blame}
Regain a sense of self and get reacquainted with YOU {even if you feel you’ve completely lost yourself in this relationship}
Gain insight into your own triggers, as well as where those overwhelming emotions come from {so you can extend kindness to yourself as you learn how to manage them effectively}
Release false responsibility and chronic guilt over why your relationship isn’t working {even if the narcissist blames you for everything}
Take your power back and set boundaries with the narcissist in your life {even if you’re naturally conflict-avoidant}
Grow in self-trust and your ability to spot narcissistic behavior {so you can stop doubting yourself and questioning your reality}
Learn the only communication strategies that work with narcissists {so you can stop overthinking every conversation}
IT’S TIME TO GET UNSTUCK with:
Rewired for Resilience
The healing program for survivors of narcissistic abuse who are ready to reclaim their life and become unshakeable
Inside this program, you’ll learn the keys to reclaiming your life and yourself:
Understand what actually motivates narcissists and how they think differently than you do {so you can stop going crazy trying to make sense of why they do what they do}
Discover the ways you’ve been deeply affected by the narcissist in your life and learn why it’s not your fault {so you can let go of the shame and self-blame}
Regain a sense of self and get reacquainted with YOU {even if you feel you’ve completely lost yourself in this relationship}
Gain insight into your own triggers, as well as where those overwhelming emotions come from {so you can extend kindness to yourself as you learn how to manage them effectively}
Release false responsibility and chronic guilt over why your relationship isn’t working {even if the narcissist blames you for everything}
Take your power back and set boundaries with the narcissist in your life {even if you’re naturally conflict-avoidant}
Grow in self-trust and your ability to spot narcissistic behavior {so you can stop doubting yourself and questioning your reality}
Learn the only communication strategies that work with narcissists {so you can stop overthinking every conversation}
What's Inside
A 12-module, self-paced online course that guides you through my signature Unshakeable Method to healing from narcissistic abuse
Step 1: Understand the Inner Workings of a Narcissist
Module 1: Are They Really a Narcissist?
Learn why narcissism is more than just a buzzword. We’ll cover common narcissistic behaviors, the most common types of narcissists, and the motivations that drive them. The first step in your healing journey is knowing what you’re actually up against.
You’ll walk away with… a new lens to assess the toxic and narcissistic relationships in your life and lay the foundation for your healing to begin.
Module 2: The Narcissist’s Playbook
Start identifying and naming the tactics narcissists use to exert power and maintain control over others. Learn why these tactics are effective and how they create a pattern of abuse over time, often without you realizing it.
You’ll walk away with… a profound realization that you’re not the crazy one for feeling that something was “off” in this relationship.
Step 2: Untangle the Narcissist’s Voice from Your Mind
Module 3: The Emotional Toll of Narcissistic Abuse
Put words to your own experience of narcissistic abuse and learn tools to navigate your complex feelings. Learn how to recognize symptoms of PTSD, the effects of narcissistic abuse on your brain, and common ways narcissists use gaslighting to get inside your head.
You’ll walk away with… a sense of relief that your experience is being validated, heard, seen, and believed.
Module 4: Your Body’s Response to Narcissistic Abuse
Tune in to the signals your body sends you in healthy and toxic relationships. Identify the dominant way your body responds to physical or emotional harm: fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or fold. Explore strategies for building up your window of tolerance and reducing the intensity of these protective responses.
You’ll walk away with… a greater appreciation for how your body tries to protect you and an understanding of how to calm your nervous system out of fight or flight.
Step 3: Discover Your Authentic Self
Module 5: The Power of Trauma Bonds
Learn how narcissists hijack your biological desire for healthy connection and trap you in a trauma bond. Betrayal blindness frequently makes it difficult to recognize the abuse cycle and causes you to feel stuck. We will discuss the reasons for this and how you can work toward breaking the trauma bond.
You’ll walk away with… understanding why it’s so hard to leave an abusive relationship and what you can do about it.
Module 6: Understanding Your Triggers & Rebuilding Your Self-Trust
Identify your own triggers and where they came from. We’ll discuss the progression of healing from triggers and cover strategies to kickstart the healing process. You’ll also learn to discern between distorted thinking and true gaslighting—so you can start rebuilding trust with yourself and stop second guessing yourself at every turn.
You’ll walk away with… a clear path to healing from your triggers and rebuilding self-trust.
Step 4: Grow Your Self-Worth, Self-Compassion, and Self-Trust
Module 7: How to Release Your Inner Critic
Silence your inner critic and stop the loop of self-blame with a toolkit of therapeutic strategies to help you feel empowered, confident, and peaceful.
You’ll walk away with… practical tools to practice self-compassion, release self-criticism, and listen to what your body actually needs.
Module 8: The Personality Types Narcissists Target
Learn why people with “agreeable” personality traits are more likely to feel trapped by narcissists. We’ll discuss why positive qualities like empathy and sensitivity are easy for narcissists to exploit—and what you can do to protect yourself.
You’ll walk away with… a better knowledge of your unique personality type and how to protect yourself against further narcissistic abuse.
Step 5: Learn Effective Coping Strategies to Become Narcissist-Resistant
Module 9: Living Your Best Life as Your Authentic Self
Discover your values and explore your needs after losing yourself in a narcissistic relationship. Learn how to separate your identity and who you are from what you do for others.
You’ll walk away… knowing how to reconnect with your authentic self and build an aligned, meaningful life on your own terms.
Module 10: How to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist—and Stick to Them
Be empowered to set firm boundaries with the narcissist in your life and learn how to stand your ground even when they push back.
You’ll walk away with… knowing how to confidently set and communicate boundaries to a narcissist without feeling triggered.
Step 6: Create a Meaningful Life and Become Unshakeable
Module 11: Become Bulletproof to a Narcissist’s Attacks
Learn how shutting down narcissistic supply can reduce abusive behavior and make you immune to the narcissist’s tactics.
You’ll walk away with… concrete communication strategies to use with narcissists in co-parenting, marriage, family, professional, and other relationships.
Module 12: Daily Strategies to Take Your Life Back
Start walking the path from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth with essential strategies and practices to empower your recovery.
You’ll walk away with… a plan to take back your reality, including somatic strategies to heal your nervous system and daily practices to promote personal growth and healing.
What's Inside
A 12-module, self-paced online course that guides you through my signature Unshakeable Method to healing from narcissistic abuse
Step 1: Understand the Inner Workings of a Narcissist
Module 1: Are They Really a Narcissist?
Learn why narcissism is more than just a buzzword. We’ll cover common narcissistic behaviors, the most common types of narcissists, and the motivations that drive them. The first step in your healing journey is knowing what you’re actually up against.
You’ll walk away with… a new lens to assess the toxic and narcissistic relationships in your life and lay the foundation for your healing to begin.
Module 2: The Narcissist’s Playbook
Start identifying and naming the tactics narcissists use to exert power and maintain control over others. Learn why these tactics are effective and how they create a pattern of abuse over time, often without you realizing it.
You’ll walk away with… a profound realization that you’re not the crazy one for feeling that something was “off” in this relationship.
Step 2: Untangle the Narcissist’s Voice from Your Mind
Module 3: The Emotional Toll of Narcissistic Abuse
Put words to your own experience of narcissistic abuse and learn tools to navigate your complex feelings. Learn how to recognize symptoms of PTSD, the effects of narcissistic abuse on your brain, and common ways narcissists use gaslighting to get inside your head.
You’ll walk away with… a sense of relief that your experience is being validated, heard, seen, and believed.
Module 4: Your Body’s Response to Narcissistic Abuse
Tune in to the signals your body sends you in healthy and toxic relationships. Identify the dominant way your body responds to physical or emotional harm: fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or fold. Explore strategies for building up your window of tolerance and reducing the intensity of these protective responses.
You’ll walk away with… a greater appreciation for how your body tries to protect you and an understanding of how to calm your nervous system out of fight or flight.
Step 3: Discover Your Authentic Self
Module 5: The Power of Trauma Bonds
Learn how narcissists hijack your biological desire for healthy connection and trap you in a trauma bond. Betrayal blindness frequently makes it difficult to recognize the abuse cycle and causes you to feel stuck. We will discuss the reasons for this and how you can work toward breaking the trauma bond.
You’ll walk away with… understanding why it’s so hard to leave an abusive relationship and what you can do about it.
Module 6: Understanding Your Triggers & Rebuilding Your Self-Trust
Identify your own triggers and where they came from. We’ll discuss the progression of healing from triggers and cover strategies to kickstart the healing process. You’ll also learn to discern between distorted thinking and true gaslighting—so you can start rebuilding trust with yourself and stop second guessing yourself at every turn.
You’ll walk away with… a clear path to healing from your triggers and rebuilding self-trust.
Step 4: Grow Your Self-Worth, Self-Compassion, and Self-Trust
Module 7: How to Release Your Inner Critic
Silence your inner critic and stop the loop of self-blame with a toolkit of therapeutic strategies to help you feel empowered, confident, and peaceful.
You’ll walk away with… practical tools to practice self-compassion, release self-criticism, and listen to what your body actually needs.
Module 8: The Personality Types Narcissists Target
Learn why people with “agreeable” personality traits are more likely to feel trapped by narcissists. We’ll discuss why positive qualities like empathy and sensitivity are easy for narcissists to exploit—and what you can do to protect yourself.
You’ll walk away with… a better knowledge of your unique personality type and how to protect yourself against further narcissistic abuse.
Step 5: Learn Effective Coping Strategies to Become Narcissist-Resistant
Module 9: Living Your Best Life as Your Authentic Self
Discover your values and explore your needs after losing yourself in a narcissistic relationship. Learn how to separate your identity and who you are from what you do for others.
You’ll walk away… knowing how to reconnect with your authentic self and build an aligned, meaningful life on your own terms.
Module 10: How to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist—and Stick to Them
Be empowered to set firm boundaries with the narcissist in your life and learn how to stand your ground even when they push back.
You’ll walk away with… knowing how to confidently set and communicate boundaries to a narcissist without feeling triggered.
Step 6: Create a Meaningful Life and Become Unshakeable
Module 11: Become Bulletproof to a Narcissist’s Attacks
Learn how shutting down narcissistic supply can reduce abusive behavior and make you immune to the narcissist’s tactics.
You’ll walk away with… concrete communication strategies to use with narcissists in co-parenting, marriage, family, professional, and other relationships.
Module 12: Daily Strategies to Take Your Life Back
Start walking the path from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth with essential strategies and practices to empower your recovery.
You’ll walk away with… a plan to take back your reality, including somatic strategies to heal your nervous system and daily practices to promote personal growth and healing.
What's Inside
A 12-module, self-paced online course that guides you through my signature Unshakeable Method to healing from narcissistic abuse
Step 1: Understand the Inner Workings of a Narcissist
Module 1: Are They Really a Narcissist?
Learn why narcissism is more than just a buzzword. We’ll cover common narcissistic behaviors, the most common types of narcissists, and the motivations that drive them. The first step in your healing journey is knowing what you’re actually up against.
You’ll walk away with… a new lens to assess the toxic and narcissistic relationships in your life and lay the foundation for your healing to begin.
Module 2: The Narcissist’s Playbook
Start identifying and naming the tactics narcissists use to exert power and maintain control over others. Learn why these tactics are effective and how they create a pattern of abuse over time, often without you realizing it.
You’ll walk away with… a profound realization that you’re not the crazy one for feeling that something was “off” in this relationship.
Step 2: Untangle the Narcissist’s Voice from Your Mind
Module 3: The Emotional Toll of Narcissistic Abuse
Put words to your own experience of narcissistic abuse and learn tools to navigate your complex feelings. Learn how to recognize symptoms of PTSD, the effects of narcissistic abuse on your brain, and common ways narcissists use gaslighting to get inside your head.
You’ll walk away with… a sense of relief that your experience is being validated, heard, seen, and believed.
Module 4: Your Body’s Response to Narcissistic Abuse
Tune in to the signals your body sends you in healthy and toxic relationships. Identify the dominant way your body responds to physical or emotional harm: fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or fold. Explore strategies for building up your window of tolerance and reducing the intensity of these protective responses.
You’ll walk away with… a greater appreciation for how your body tries to protect you and an understanding of how to calm your nervous system out of fight or flight.
Step 3: Discover Your Authentic Self
Module 5: The Power of Trauma Bonds
Learn how narcissists hijack your biological desire for healthy connection and trap you in a trauma bond. Betrayal blindness frequently makes it difficult to recognize the abuse cycle and causes you to feel stuck. We will discuss the reasons for this and how you can work toward breaking the trauma bond.
You’ll walk away with… understanding why it’s so hard to leave an abusive relationship and what you can do about it.
Module 6: Understanding Your Triggers & Rebuilding Your Self-Trust
Identify your own triggers and where they came from. We’ll discuss the progression of healing from triggers and cover strategies to kickstart the healing process. You’ll also learn to discern between distorted thinking and true gaslighting—so you can start rebuilding trust with yourself and stop second guessing yourself at every turn.
You’ll walk away with… a clear path to healing from your triggers and rebuilding self-trust.
Step 4: Grow Your Self-Worth, Self-Compassion, and Self-Trust
Module 7: How to Release Your Inner Critic
Silence your inner critic and stop the loop of self-blame with a toolkit of therapeutic strategies to help you feel empowered, confident, and peaceful.
You’ll walk away with… practical tools to practice self-compassion, release self-criticism, and listen to what your body actually needs.
Module 8: The Personality Types Narcissists Target
Learn why people with “agreeable” personality traits are more likely to feel trapped by narcissists. We’ll discuss why positive qualities like empathy and sensitivity are easy for narcissists to exploit—and what you can do to protect yourself.
You’ll walk away with… a better knowledge of your unique personality type and how to protect yourself against further narcissistic abuse.
Step 5: Learn Effective Coping Strategies to Become Narcissist-Resistant
Module 9: Living Your Best Life as Your Authentic Self
Discover your values and explore your needs after losing yourself in a narcissistic relationship. Learn how to separate your identity and who you are from what you do for others.
You’ll walk away… knowing how to reconnect with your authentic self and build an aligned, meaningful life on your own terms.
Module 10: How to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist—and Stick to Them
Be empowered to set firm boundaries with the narcissist in your life and learn how to stand your ground even when they push back.
You’ll walk away with… knowing how to confidently set and communicate boundaries to a narcissist without feeling triggered.
Step 6: Create a Meaningful Life and Become Unshakeable
Module 11: Become Bulletproof to a Narcissist’s Attacks
Learn how shutting down narcissistic supply can reduce abusive behavior and make you immune to the narcissist’s tactics.
You’ll walk away with… concrete communication strategies to use with narcissists in co-parenting, marriage, family, professional, and other relationships.
Module 12: Daily Strategies to Take Your Life Back
Start walking the path from post-traumatic stress to post-traumatic growth with essential strategies and practices to empower your recovery.
You’ll walk away with… a plan to take back your reality, including somatic strategies to heal your nervous system and daily practices to promote personal growth and healing.
But what really sets this program apart is the live support
Narcissistic abuse is a heavy topic, especially when you’re still experiencing it. That’s why the program is delivered with 12 weeks of live support to help you integrate what you’re learning. You’ll be able to join live support groups led by me and gain access to a private healing community of survivors just like you.
But what really sets this program apart is the live support
Narcissistic abuse is a heavy topic, especially when you’re still experiencing it. That’s why the program is delivered with 12 weeks of live support to help you integrate what you’re learning. You’ll be able to join live support groups led by me and gain access to a private healing community of survivors just like you.
But what really sets this program apart is the live support
Narcissistic abuse is a heavy topic, especially when you’re still experiencing it. That’s why the program is delivered with 12 weeks of live support to help you integrate what you’re learning. You’ll be able to join live support groups led by me and gain access to a private healing community of survivors just like you.
Grounding Groups (offered 3x/month)
Join a support group facilitated by me where you can share your breakthrough moments, your ongoing struggles, and hear other survivor stories. These calls are not recorded, to protect the privacy of members.
Live Q&A Sessions (offered 1x/month)
Bring your questions about the course content or real-life scenarios keeping you stuck. Submit them beforehand or ask me during the live Q&A once a month.
Private healing community
Connect with other survivors of narcissistic abuse who are committed to healing and growth. Find designated discussion spaces for people with narcissistic partners and for adult children of a narcissistic parent, and other specific situations.
Grounding Groups (offered 3x/month)
Join a support group facilitated by me where you can share your breakthrough moments, your ongoing struggles, and hear other survivor stories. These calls are not recorded, to protect the privacy of members.
Live Q&A Sessions (offered 1x/month)
Bring your questions about the course content or real-life scenarios keeping you stuck. Submit them beforehand or ask me during the live Q&A once a month.
Private healing community
Connect with other survivors of narcissistic abuse who are committed to healing and growth. Find designated discussion spaces for people with narcissistic partners and for adult children of a narcissistic parent, and other specific situations.
Grounding Groups (offered 3x/month)
Join a support group facilitated by me where you can share your breakthrough moments, your ongoing struggles, and hear other survivor stories. These calls are not recorded, to protect the privacy of members.
Live Q&A Sessions (offered 1x/month)
Bring your questions about the course content or real-life scenarios keeping you stuck. Submit them beforehand or ask me during the live Q&A once a month.
Private healing community
Connect with other survivors of narcissistic abuse who are committed to healing and growth. Find designated discussion spaces for people with narcissistic partners and for adult children of a narcissistic parent, and other specific situations.
“It was like I was transformed, rearranged, and just born again. It’s really hard to explain but it’s incredible and it’s hard work, but well worth it. Chelsey knows her stuff and I’d recommend the program to anyone.”
–Debrieanna
“The program has been profoundly impactful to me. It is perfectly designed. The information I have learned has been life changing — and the validation from Chelsey has really helped me digest and process all that has happened to me.”
-MP
“It was like I was transformed, rearranged, and just born again. It’s really hard to explain but it’s incredible and it’s hard work, but well worth it. Chelsey knows her stuff and I’d recommend the program to anyone.”
–Debrieanna
“The program has been profoundly impactful to me. It is perfectly designed. The information I have learned has been life changing — and the validation from Chelsey has really helped me digest and process all that has happened to me.”
-MP
“It was like I was transformed, rearranged, and just born again. It’s really hard to explain but it’s incredible and it’s hard work, but well worth it. Chelsey knows her stuff and I’d recommend the program to anyone.”
–Debrieanna
“The program has been profoundly impactful to me. It is perfectly designed. The information I have learned has been life changing — and the validation from Chelsey has really helped me digest and process all that has happened to me.”
-MP
You also get a bonus toolkit of healing resources
I personally created the resources inside this toolkit to support survivors of narcissistic abuse through the six stages of their healing journey. When you join Rewired for Resilience, you’ll gain instant access to these tools, including:
250+ page customizable workbook
Journal prompts
Somatic-based coping skills
Trauma-informed meditations
Research-supported healing strategies
You also get a bonus toolkit of healing resources
I personally created the resources inside this toolkit to support survivors of narcissistic abuse through the six stages of their healing journey. When you join Rewired for Resilience, you’ll gain instant access to these tools, including:
250+ page customizable workbook
Journal prompts
Somatic-based coping skills
Trauma-informed meditations
Research-supported healing strategies
You also get a bonus toolkit of healing resources
I personally created the resources inside this toolkit to support survivors of narcissistic abuse through the six stages of their healing journey. When you join Rewired for Resilience, you’ll gain instant access to these tools, including:
250+ page customizable workbook
Journal prompts
Somatic-based coping skills
Trauma-informed meditations
Research-supported healing strategies
LET’S BREAK IT down
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules)………………………$2200 value
250+ Page Workbook…..…….…………$297.00 value
Guided Meditations………………..…….$197.00 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month)……………..$900 value
Live Q&A (1x/month)………………………….$450 value
Private healing community………………….$297 value
LET’S BREAK IT down
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules)……………..……$2200 value
250+ Page Workbook……..…….…$297.00 value
Guided Meditations………………….$197.00 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month)……….$900 value
Live Q&A (1x/month)……………………$450 value
Private healing community…………..$297 value
LET’S BREAK IT down
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules)…………………………$2200 value
250+ Page Workbook……………..………$297.00 value
Guided Meditations……………………….$197.00 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month)………..$900 value
Live Q&A (1x/month)……………………..$450 value
Private healing community…………….$297 value
“I have become a lot more assured of myself again, finding me after everything I lost because of my last relationship. Chelsey has a great sense of calm, and her knowledge on the subject is just amazing. I have thoroughly enjoyed this program. It has helped me in more ways I can’t even express. I love me again.”
–Jolene M
“I have become a lot more assured of myself again, finding me after everything I lost because of my last relationship. Chelsey has a great sense of calm, and her knowledge on the subject is just amazing. I have thoroughly enjoyed this program. It has helped me in more ways I can’t even express. I love me again.”
–Jolene M
“I have become a lot more assured of myself again, finding me after everything I lost because of my last relationship. Chelsey has a great sense of calm, and her knowledge on the subject is just amazing. I have thoroughly enjoyed this program. It has helped me in more ways I can’t even express. I love me again.”
–Jolene M
LET’S MAKE SURE YOU’RE READY TO
GET THE clarity + healing YOU CRAVE INSIDE
Rewired for Resilience
This program is right for you if…
→ You want… to feel empowered and confident to set boundaries, make decisions, and live out your own values, without second guessing yourself constantly
→ You’re… tired of always feeling like you’re ‘not enough’ and are prone to people-pleasing, self-doubt, and inner criticism
→ You are… feeling stuck, confused, and guilty in your relationship, even though you’ve worked so hard to improve it
→ You’ve… tried going to therapy, but still feel stuck, or like your therapist doesn’t really understand narcissistic abuse
→ You… haven’t tried therapy yet, and want to get a massive kickstart on your healing and gain key insights that can help you get more out of therapy down the road
→ You’re… ready to take active, intentional steps forward in growth and healing, instead of further ruminating on the narcissist’s behavior
→ You have… already tried everything to ‘fix’ this relationship, from self-help books to therapy, and nothing has helped
LET’S MAKE SURE YOU’RE READY TO GET THE clarity + healing YOU CRAVE INSIDE
Rewired for Resilience
This program is right for you if…
→ You want… to feel empowered and confident to set boundaries, make decisions, and live out your own values, without second guessing yourself constantly
→ You’re… tired of always feeling like you’re ‘not enough’ and are prone to people-pleasing, self-doubt, and inner criticism
→ You are… feeling stuck, confused, and guilty in your relationship, even though you’ve worked so hard to improve it
→ You’ve… tried going to therapy, but still feel stuck, or like your therapist doesn’t really understand narcissistic abuse
→ You… haven’t tried therapy yet, and want to get a massive kickstart on your healing and gain key insights that can help you get more out of therapy down the road
→ You’re… ready to take active, intentional steps forward in growth and healing, instead of further ruminating on the narcissist’s behavior
→ You have… already tried everything to ‘fix’ this relationship, from self-help books to therapy, and nothing has helped
LET’S MAKE SURE YOU’RE READY TO GET THE clarity + healing YOU CRAVE INSIDE
Rewired for Resilience
This program is right for you if…
→ You want… to feel empowered and confident to set boundaries, make decisions, and live out your own values, without second guessing yourself constantly
→ You’re… tired of always feeling like you’re ‘not enough’ and are prone to people-pleasing, self-doubt, and inner criticism
→ You are… feeling stuck, confused, and guilty in your relationship, even though you’ve worked so hard to improve it
→ You’ve… tried going to therapy, but still feel stuck, or like your therapist doesn’t really understand narcissistic abuse
→ You… haven’t tried therapy yet, and want to get a massive kickstart on your healing and gain key insights that can help you get more out of therapy down the road
→ You’re… ready to take active, intentional steps forward in growth and healing, instead of further ruminating on the narcissist’s behavior
→ You have… already tried everything to ‘fix’ this relationship, from self-help books to therapy, and nothing has helped
“I had no idea I had pushed my feelings so far away. The tools and discussions helped me to regulate my nervous system. I had not realized how much energy I had been using feeling awful all the time. Being aware is so powerful!”
-Anonymous
“I had no idea I had pushed my feelings so far away. The tools and discussions helped me to regulate my nervous system. I had not realized how much energy I had been using feeling awful all the time. Being aware is so powerful!”
-Anonymous
“I had no idea I had pushed my feelings so far away. The tools and discussions helped me to regulate my nervous system. I had not realized how much energy I had been using feeling awful all the time. Being aware is so powerful!”
-Anonymous
The Narcissist-Proof Promise
Your Money-Back Guarantee
I know you’re looking for clarity, something to make sense of the chaos in your relationship.
But you’re also struggling with doubt. With trusting yourself to make good decisions.
The inner critic is running rampant in your head. Maybe it’s telling you:
→ “You’ve already tried everything.”
→ “Why would this be different?”
→ “You should be able to figure this out yourself.”
→ “What if you spend money on this and it doesn’t actually help?”
First of all, I want you to know—I hear you. I’ve been where you are.
And I don’t want your self-doubt to be a barrier to your own healing.
That’s why I decided to offer this program with a 7-day money back guarantee.
After purchase, you have 7 days to log in, look around, review the content, and decide if this is really the right place for you.
If you change your mind, you can contact me within 7 days of purchase to request a full refund. No questions asked.
I hope this gives you the peace of mind and confidence you need to take the leap and invest in your own healing by joining us inside.
I’ve worked with thousands of survivors in your shoes, and over the years I’ve mapped out the path that takes you from self-doubt and criticism to healing and self-confidence.
I poured everything I’ve learned about the healing journey into this program.
I’ve supported countless survivors to take back their lives and start living a new narrative, one they chose for themselves.
And I know you can do it, too.
You’re worthy of healing – whether you believe it yet, or not.
The Narcissist-Proof Promise
YOUR MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
I know you’re looking for clarity, something to make sense of the chaos in your relationship. But you’re also struggling with doubt. With trusting yourself to make good decisions.
The inner critic is running rampant in your head. Maybe it’s telling you:
→ “You’ve already tried everything.”
→ “Why would this be different?”
→ “You should be able to figure this out yourself.”
→ “What if you spend money on this and it doesn’t actually help?”
First of all, I want you to know—I hear you. I’ve been where you are.
And I don’t want your self-doubt to be a barrier to your own healing.
That’s why I decided to offer this program with a 7-day money back guarantee.
After purchase, you have 7 days to log in, look around, review the content, and decide if this is really the right place for you.
If you change your mind, you can contact me within 7 days of purchase to request a full refund. No questions asked.
I hope this gives you the peace of mind and confidence you need to take the leap and invest in your own healing by joining us inside.
I’ve worked with thousands of survivors in your shoes, and over the years I’ve mapped out the path that takes you from self-doubt and criticism to healing and self-confidence.
I poured everything I’ve learned about the healing journey into this program.
I’ve supported countless survivors to take back their lives and start living a new narrative, one they chose for themselves.
And I know you can do it, too.
You’re worthy of healing – whether you believe it yet, or not.
The Narcissist-Proof Promise
YOUR MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
I know you’re looking for clarity, something to make sense of the chaos in your relationship. But you’re also struggling with doubt. With trusting yourself to make good decisions.
The inner critic is running rampant in your head. Maybe it’s telling you:
→ “You’ve already tried everything.”
→ “Why would this be different?”
→ “You should be able to figure this out yourself.”
→ “What if you spend money on this and it doesn’t actually help?”
First of all, I want you to know—I hear you. I’ve been where you are.
And I don’t want your self-doubt to be a barrier to your own healing.
That’s why I decided to offer this program with a 7-day money back guarantee.
After purchase, you have 7 days to log in, look around, review the content, and decide if this is really the right place for you.
If you change your mind, you can contact me within 7 days of purchase to request a full refund. No questions asked.
I hope this gives you the peace of mind and confidence you need to take the leap and invest in your own healing by joining us inside.
I’ve worked with thousands of survivors in your shoes, and over the years I’ve mapped out the path that takes you from self-doubt and criticism to healing and self-confidence.
I poured everything I’ve learned about the healing journey into this program.
I’ve supported countless survivors to take back their lives and start living a new narrative, one they chose for themselves.
And I know you can do it, too.
You’re worthy of healing – whether you believe it yet, or not.
“Before I joined, and part of the reason I joined, was because I did feel stuck in my healing process. I also felt like I was losing my own sense of confidence and my ability to handle all these challenges. I do feel that confidence coming back again, like I am capable of making my own decisions.”
–Ashley
“Chelsey is empathetic, kind, and able to hold space for each and every participant with compassion and grace. “
— Kristen
“I am honored that my fellow group members trust me and are comfortable sharing their experiences.”
— TC
“Before I joined, and part of the reason I joined, was because I did feel stuck in my healing process. I also felt like I was losing my own sense of confidence and my ability to handle all these challenges. I do feel that confidence coming back again, like I am capable of making my own decisions.”
–Ashley
“Chelsey is empathetic, kind, and able to hold space for each and every participant with compassion and grace. “
-Kristen
“Before I joined, and part of the reason I joined, was because I did feel stuck in my healing process. I also felt like I was losing my own sense of confidence and my ability to handle all these challenges. I do feel that confidence coming back again, like I am capable of making my own decisions.”
–Ashley
“Chelsey is empathetic, kind, and able to hold space for each and every participant with compassion and grace. “
-Kristen
What makes me an expert on narcissists?
Like you, I’m also a survivor of narcissistic abuse.
Growing up, I tried very hard to be “good enough.” I desperately wanted to feel whole—to be seen and heard. To know that I didn’t have to earn love. And as an adult, I spent more than a decade trapped in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve been betrayed, lied to, disregarded, rejected, cheated on, and targeted in smear campaigns.
I’ve been where you are now, struggling with self-worth and insecurity, overthinking everything I say and do, ignoring my intuition, and abandoning myself and my needs.
All while desperately trying to feel ‘good enough’ and ‘fix’ myself—and the relationship.
The thing about narcissistic abuse is that it’s so subtle and insidious that you don’t realize it’s happening until the damage is done.
It’s like living in a house full of toxic fumes — and wondering why you’re feeling so sick.
It was only once I finally learned how to recognize narcissistic behavior for what it was that things actually started to change, bit by bit.
I learned how to see myself (and the narcissist) differently.
I developed self-compassion and started extending grace to myself, instead of criticism.
I stopped taking responsibility for problems that weren’t my fault and that I did nothing to create.
I finally appreciated my kind heart, genuine intentions, and resilient spirit. I saw myself for who I was—who I had always been—instead of seeing myself through the judgmental eyes of the narcissist.
While I’m still a work in progress, my life looks starkly different today than it did while I was drowning in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve learned how to hold boundaries, make space for what I need, and trust my intuition.
I’ve learned how to make meaning from the mess and build an authentic and fulfilling life.
What makes me an expert on narcissists?
Like you, I’m also a survivor of narcissistic abuse.
Growing up, I tried very hard to be “good enough.” I desperately wanted to feel whole—to be seen and heard. To know that I didn’t have to earn love. And as an adult, I spent more than a decade trapped in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve been betrayed, lied to, disregarded, rejected, cheated on, and targeted in smear campaigns.
I’ve been where you are now, struggling with self-worth and insecurity, overthinking everything I say and do, ignoring my intuition, and abandoning myself and my needs.
All while desperately trying to feel ‘good enough’ and ‘fix’ myself—and the relationship.
The thing about narcissistic abuse is that it’s so subtle and insidious that you don’t realize it’s happening until the damage is done.
It’s like living in a house full of toxic fumes — and wondering why you’re feeling so sick.
It was only once I finally learned how to recognize narcissistic behavior for what it was that things actually started to change, bit by bit.
I learned how to see myself (and the narcissist) differently.
I developed self-compassion and started extending grace to myself, instead of criticism.
I stopped taking responsibility for problems that weren’t my fault and that I did nothing to create.
I finally appreciated my kind heart, genuine intentions, and resilient spirit. I saw myself for who I was—who I had always been—instead of seeing myself through the judgmental eyes of the narcissist.
While I’m still a work in progress, my life looks starkly different today than it did while I was drowning in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve learned how to hold boundaries, make space for what I need, and trust my intuition.
I’ve learned how to make meaning from the mess and build an authentic and fulfilling life.
What makes me an expert on narcissists?
Like you, I’m also a survivor of narcissistic abuse.
Growing up, I tried very hard to be “good enough.” I desperately wanted to feel whole—to be seen and heard. To know that I didn’t have to earn love. And as an adult, I spent more than a decade trapped in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve been betrayed, lied to, disregarded, rejected, cheated on, and targeted in smear campaigns.
I’ve been where you are now, struggling with self-worth and insecurity, overthinking everything I say and do, ignoring my intuition, and abandoning myself and my needs.
All while desperately trying to feel ‘good enough’ and ‘fix’ myself—and the relationship.
The thing about narcissistic abuse is that it’s so subtle and insidious that you don’t realize it’s happening until the damage is done.
It’s like living in a house full of toxic fumes — and wondering why you’re feeling so sick.
It was only once I finally learned how to recognize narcissistic behavior for what it was that things actually started to change, bit by bit.
I learned how to see myself (and the narcissist) differently.
I developed self-compassion and started extending grace to myself, instead of criticism.
I stopped taking responsibility for problems that weren’t my fault and that I did nothing to create.
I finally appreciated my kind heart, genuine intentions, and resilient spirit. I saw myself for who I was—who I had always been—instead of seeing myself through the judgmental eyes of the narcissist.
While I’m still a work in progress, my life looks starkly different today than it did while I was drowning in narcissistic relationships.
I’ve learned how to hold boundaries, make space for what I need, and trust my intuition.
I’ve learned how to make meaning from the mess and build an authentic and fulfilling life.
I’ve taken back my power from past and current narcissists.
And I’ve made it my mission to help others do the same:
√ I’ve worked with thousands of survivors as an internationally recognized psychotherapist and speaker
√ I’ve received additional training in narcissistic abuse treatment and a professional certification in betrayal trauma recovery
√ I’ve published a bestselling book, IF ONLY I’D KNOWN: How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
But all of it stems from my lived experience of being in the chaos, like you are right now.
That’s what makes Rewired for Resilience so special. It’s where my lived experience meets clinical expertise as I help survivors…
…reconnect with themselves
…calm their nervous system
…regain a sense of agency
…take back the life that was stolen from them.
I hope you’ll join us. It’s time to take back your life from narcissistic abuse.
I’ve taken back my power from past and current narcissists.
And I’ve made it my mission to help others do the same:
√ I’ve worked with thousands of survivors as an internationally recognized psychotherapist and speaker
√ I’ve received additional training in narcissistic abuse treatment and a professional certification in betrayal trauma recovery
√ I’ve published a bestselling book, IF ONLY I’D KNOWN: How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
But all of it stems from my lived experience of being in the chaos, like you are right now.
That’s what makes Rewired for Resilience so special. It’s where my lived experience meets clinical expertise as I help survivors…
…reconnect with themselves
…calm their nervous system
…regain a sense of agency
…take back the life that was stolen from them.
I hope you’ll join us. It’s time to take back your life from narcissistic abuse.
I’ve taken back my power from past and current narcissists.
And I’ve made it my mission to help others do the same:
√ I’ve worked with thousands of survivors as an internationally recognized psychotherapist and speaker
√ I’ve received additional training in narcissistic abuse treatment and a professional certification in betrayal trauma recovery
√ I’ve published a bestselling book, IF ONLY I’D KNOWN: How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
But all of it stems from my lived experience of being in the chaos, like you are right now.
That’s what makes Rewired for Resilience so special. It’s where my lived experience meets clinical expertise as I help survivors…
…reconnect with themselves
…calm their nervous system
…regain a sense of agency
…take back the life that was stolen from them.
I hope you’ll join us. It’s time to take back your life from narcissistic abuse.
“I feel like this program has really helped me see that ‘Oh, there’s nothing wrong with me? Oh, I’m reacting normally to a set of circumstances that I grew up under?’”
-Emily
“My confidence in myself and who I am as a person has dramatically increased. I was just surviving, trying to keep any sort of peace, and continuing to lose myself. I am at peace now, I’m enjoying my friends and family again, rather than stressing about the toxic relationship. Chelsey has helped me in this process.”
-KMM
“I feel like this program has really helped me see that ‘Oh, there’s nothing wrong with me? Oh, I’m reacting normally to a set of circumstances that I grew up under?’”
–Emily
“My confidence in myself and who I am as a person has dramatically increased. I was just surviving, trying to keep any sort of peace, and continuing to lose myself. I am at peace now, I’m enjoying my friends and family again, rather than stressing about the toxic relationship. Chelsey has helped me in this process.”
-KMM
“I feel like this program has really helped me see that ‘Oh, there’s nothing wrong with me? Oh, I’m reacting normally to a set of circumstances that I grew up under?’”
–Emily
“My confidence in myself and who I am as a person has dramatically increased. I was just surviving, trying to keep any sort of peace, and continuing to lose myself. I am at peace now, I’m enjoying my friends and family again, rather than stressing about the toxic relationship. Chelsey has helped me in this process.”
-KMM
Have a question about the program?
Here’s What Other Survivors Have Asked Before Joining
What types of narcissistic relationships does the program cover?
We cover narcissistic relationships of all types—with romantic partners, parents, siblings, bosses, coworkers, and friends.
The community area has separate discussion threads dedicated specifically to survivors with narcissistic partners, parents, family members, workplaces, and more.
How much of the program focuses on the narcissist and their behavior? I want to move on!
I hear you! The narcissist has already taken enough from you, and you’re ready to move forward, not stay stuck in the past.
The focus of this program is to offer deep insights that open the door to healing and provide you with proven strategies to move forward in your personal growth.
In my professional experience, that means we do need to spend some time talking about the narcissist and their behavior. But we do it for the purpose of reflecting on how their actions have impacted you. That way, you don’t stay stuck wondering, ‘Is it me? Could I change this? Is this my fault?’
The course (and the live support groups) are appropriately moderated by me. It’s not a space to ‘trauma dump,’ but rather to gain validation and feel more understood and empowered. The purpose of understanding narcissistic behavior and motivations is to learn how it impacted you so you can move forward with clarity and self-compassion.
Are the lessons, support groups, and Q&A calls recorded?
All of the course modules and guided meditations are pre-recorded by me. You will also receive a downloadable and customizable workbook that includes reflection questions, journal prompts, and worksheets for every module and lesson to further aid your understanding and healing journey.
All live Q&A calls are recorded so you can get your questions answered, even if you can’t join in real time. The live support groups are not recorded to protect the privacy of the members.
Can I remain anonymous?
support groupsYes. After purchasing the program and creating your profile, you can decide whether or not you’d like to add a photo, use your real name, initials, or a pseudonym. During support groups and Q&As, you can choose to join with your camera on/off. However, for group coaching sessions (which are not recorded), I do encourage cameras on, as this creates a greater sense of community support and connecting with real survivors, rather than a blank screen.
When can I access the course?
The course modules are pre-recorded and available 24/7. You can access them as soon as you purchase!
How long will I have access to the program?
You will have lifetime access to the course modules and bonus resources. Your purchase comes with 12 weeks of live support and access to the community.
Who can see what I post in the community?
Only the people who have purchased the program have access to view and participate in community discussions.
What times will the support groups and live Q&As be offered?
I will vary the times that the Q&As and support groups are offered to accommodate people across different time zones, and I aim to announce the dates a month in advance each time.
How will this charge show up on my credit card bill?
It will show up as “CBC Healing Community” or “CBC HEAL.” There will be no mention of narcissistic abuse recovery.
Is this the same as therapy?
No. This is an educational course with support groups available. Participating in the course or the live support groups should not be confused with clinical treatment by a licensed therapist.
Have a question about the program?
Here’s What Other Survivors Have Asked Before Joining
What types of narcissistic relationships does the program cover?
We cover narcissistic relationships of all types—with romantic partners, parents, siblings, bosses, coworkers, and friends.
The community area has separate discussion threads dedicated specifically to survivors with narcissistic partners, parents, family members, workplaces, and more.
How much of the program focuses on the narcissist and their behavior? I want to move on!
I hear you! The narcissist has already taken enough from you, and you’re ready to move forward, not stay stuck in the past.
The focus of this program is to offer deep insights that open the door to healing and provide you with proven strategies to move forward in your personal growth.
In my professional experience, that means we do need to spend some time talking about the narcissist and their behavior. But we do it for the purpose of reflecting on how their actions have impacted you. That way, you don’t stay stuck wondering, ‘Is it me? Could I change this? Is this my fault?’
The course (and the live support groups) are appropriately moderated by me. It’s not a space to ‘trauma dump,’ but rather to gain validation and feel more understood and empowered. The purpose of understanding narcissistic behavior and motivations is to learn how it impacted you so you can move forward with clarity and self-compassion.
Are the lessons, support groups, and Q&A calls recorded?
All of the course modules and guided meditations are pre-recorded by me. You will also receive a downloadable and customizable workbook that includes reflection questions, journal prompts, and worksheets for every module and lesson to further aid your understanding and healing journey.
All live Q&A calls are recorded so you can get your questions answered, even if you can’t join in real time. The live support groups are not recorded to protect the privacy of the members.
Can I remain anonymous?
Yes. After purchasing the program and creating your profile, you can decide whether or not you’d like to add a photo, use your real name, initials, or a pseudonym. During support groups and Q&As, you can choose to join with your camera on/off. However, for support groups (which are not recorded), I do encourage cameras on, as this creates a greater sense of community support and connecting with real survivors, rather than a blank screen.
When can I access the course?
The course modules are pre-recorded and available 24/7. You can access them as soon as you purchase!
How long will I have access to the program?
You will have lifetime access to the course modules and bonus resources. Your purchase comes with 12 weeks of live support and access to the community.
Who can see what I post in the community?
Only the people who have purchased the program have access to view and participate in community discussions.
What times will the support groups and live Q&As be offered?
I will vary the times that the Q&As and support groups are offered to accommodate people across different time zones, and I aim to announce the dates a month in advance each time.
How will this charge show up on my credit card bill?
It will show up as “CBC Healing Community” or “CBC HEAL.” There will be no mention of narcissistic abuse recovery.
Is this the same as therapy?
No. This is an educational course with support groups available. Participating in the course or the live support groups should not be confused with clinical treatment by a licensed therapist.
Have a question about the program?
Here’s What Other Survivors Have Asked Before Joining
What types of narcissistic relationships does the program cover?
We cover narcissistic relationships of all types—with romantic partners, parents, siblings, bosses, coworkers, and friends.
The community area has separate discussion threads dedicated specifically to survivors with narcissistic partners, parents, family members, workplaces, and more.
How much of the program focuses on the narcissist and their behavior? I want to move on!
I hear you! The narcissist has already taken enough from you, and you’re ready to move forward, not stay stuck in the past.
The focus of this program is to offer deep insights that open the door to healing and provide you with proven strategies to move forward in your personal growth.
In my professional experience, that means we do need to spend some time talking about the narcissist and their behavior. But we do it for the purpose of reflecting on how their actions have impacted you. That way, you don’t stay stuck wondering, ‘Is it me? Could I change this? Is this my fault?’
The course (and the live support groups) are appropriately moderated by me. It’s not a space to ‘trauma dump,’ but rather to gain validation and feel more understood and empowered. The purpose of understanding narcissistic behavior and motivations is to learn how it impacted you so you can move forward with clarity and self-compassion.
Are the lessons, support groups, and Q&A calls recorded?
All of the course modules and guided meditations are pre-recorded by me. You will also receive a downloadable and customizable workbook that includes reflection questions, journal prompts, and worksheets for every module and lesson to further aid your understanding and healing journey.
All live Q&A calls are recorded so you can get your questions answered, even if you can’t join in real time. The live support groups are not recorded to protect the privacy of the members.
Can I remain anonymous?
Yes. After purchasing the program and creating your profile, you can decide whether or not you’d like to add a photo, use your real name, initials, or a pseudonym. During support groups and Q&As, you can choose to join with your camera on/off. However, for support groups (which are not recorded), I do encourage cameras on, as this creates a greater sense of community support and connecting with real survivors, rather than a blank screen.
When can I access the course?
The course modules are pre-recorded and available 24/7. You can access them as soon as you purchase!
How long will I have access to the program?
You will have lifetime access to the course modules and bonus resources. Your purchase comes with 12 weeks of live support and access to the community.
Who can see what I post in the community?
Only the people who have purchased the program have access to view and participate in community discussions.
What times will the support groups and live Q&As be offered?
I will vary the times that the Q&As and support groups are offered to accommodate people across different time zones, and I aim to announce the dates a month in advance each time.
How will this charge show up on my credit card bill?
It will show up as “CBC Healing Community” or “CBC HEAL.” There will be no mention of narcissistic abuse recovery.
Is this the same as therapy?
No. This is an educational course with support groups available. Participating in the course or the live support groups should not be confused with clinical treatment by a licensed therapist.
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules) – $2300 value
Bonus: Custom healing toolkit – $150 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month) – $585 value
Live Q&A (1x/month) – $195 value
Private healing community – $75 value
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules) – $2300 value
Custom healing toolkit – $150 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month) – $585 value
Live Q&A (1x/month) – $195 value
Private healing community – $75 value
Rewired for Resilience
LIFETIME ACCESS
Course (12 modules) – $2300 value
Bonus: Custom healing toolkit – $150 value
12 WEEKS OF LIVE SUPPORT
Grounding Groups (3x/month) – $585 value
Live Q&A (1x/month) – $195 value
Private healing community – $75 value
Narcissism is a popular buzzword today, and there are lots of programs out there claiming to help you heal from narcissistic abuse.
Here’s How Some Of Them Stack Up:
Other Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Programs
REWIRED FOR RESILIENCE
Force you to choose between great, quality content or access to a community of people sharing similar experiences
Get both transformational content and access to a safe, supportive community of survivors learning alongside you
Leave you on your own to navigate difficult content that may activate painful feelings or memories
Hop on a live weekly support group to get real, hands-on support as you go through the course modules
Focus on healing from only one specific type of narcissistic abuse
Learn to recognize the breadth and subtleties of narcissistic abuse (because most abusers use multiple strategies)
Exclusive to only one type of narcissistic relationship
Open and relevant to narcissistic relationships of all types (romantic partners, parents, family members, workplace relationships, etc.)
Live calls facilitated by other therapists or coaches you don’t know
All live support groups are led or facilitated by me
Narcissism is a popular buzzword today, and there are lots of programs out there claiming to help you heal from narcissistic abuse.
Here’s How Some Of Them Stack Up:
Other Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Programs
Force you to choose between great, quality content or access to a community of people sharing similar experiences
Leave you on your own to navigate difficult content that may activate painful feelings or memories
Focus on healing from only one specific type of narcissistic abuse
Exclusive to only one type of narcissistic relationship
Live calls facilitated by other therapists or coaches you don’t know
REWIRED FOR RESILIENCE
Get both transformational content and access to a safe, supportive community of survivors learning alongside you
Hop on a live weekly support group to get real, hands-on support as you go through the course modules
Learn to recognize the breadth and subtleties of narcissistic abuse (because most abusers use multiple strategies)
Open and relevant to narcissistic relationships of all types (romantic partners, parents, family members, workplace relationships, etc.)
All live support groups are led or facilitated by me
Narcissism is a popular buzzword today, and there are lots of programs out there claiming to help you heal from narcissistic abuse.
Here’s How Some Of Them Stack Up:
Other Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Programs
Force you to choose between great, quality content or access to a community of people sharing similar experiences
Leave you on your own to navigate difficult content that may activate painful feelings or memories
Focus on healing from only one specific type of narcissistic abuse
Exclusive to only one type of narcissistic relationship
Live calls facilitated by other therapists or coaches you don’t know
REWIRED FOR RESILIENCE
Get both transformational content and access to a safe, supportive community of survivors learning alongside you
Hop on a live weekly support group to get real, hands-on support as you go through the course modules
Learn to recognize the breadth and subtleties of narcissistic abuse (because most abusers use multiple strategies)
Open and relevant to narcissistic relationships of all types (romantic partners, parents, family members, workplace relationships, etc.)
All live support groups are led or facilitated by me
LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION:
How much of your time and headspace is being dominated by the narcissist in your life?
How many hours each week do you spend…
→ ruminating over every interaction
→ replaying scenarios over and over in your head
→ agonizing over what you should have said or not said
→ overthinking how to word your request so they “won’t get mad”
However much time you guessed, I’m willing to bet it’s more.
The longer we’re immersed in this kind of relationship dynamic, the more “normal” it becomes to us. The subtlety of the abuse fuels your self-doubt and send-guessing.
LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION:
How much of your time and headspace is being dominated by the narcissist in your life?
How many hours each week do you spend…
→ ruminating over every interaction
→ replaying scenarios over and over in your head
→ agonizing over what you should have said or not said
→ overthinking how to word your request so they “won’t get mad”
However much time you guessed, I’m willing to bet it’s more.
The longer we’re immersed in this kind of relationship dynamic, the more “normal” it becomes to us. The subtlety of the abuse fuels your self-doubt and send-guessing.
LET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION:
How much of your time and headspace is being dominated by the narcissist in your life?
How many hours each week do you spend…
→ ruminating over every interaction
→ replaying scenarios over and over in your head
→ agonizing over what you should have said or not said
→ overthinking how to word your request so they “won’t get mad”
However much time you guessed, I’m willing to bet it’s more.
The longer we’re immersed in this kind of relationship dynamic, the more “normal” it becomes to us. The subtlety of the abuse fuels your self-doubt and send-guessing.
But what could you do if the narcissist wasn’t in your head? Who could you be?
What would it feel like for the ruminating to stop?
To not feel triggered by every interaction?
To have confidence in yourself, and in your reality?
What doors would open up for you to…
→ Be a more attuned, involved parent, instead of having nothing left in your emotional tank for your kids
→ Focus on growing your business or career, because you finally have the mental capacity to plan for the future
→ Invest in other (healthy) friendships, because you’re not constantly trying to manage the narcissist’s reactions
→ Focus on improving your health, because you finally believe in your own inherent worth as a person
→ Enjoy your life, because you’re finally out of survival mode and don’t feel the compulsive need to remain hypervigilant
The narcissist has already taken enough from you.
It’s time to recover the amazing, capable, inherently worthy person you were — and still are — underneath the narcissist’s lies.
But what could you do if the narcissist wasn’t in your head? Who could you be?
What would it feel like for the ruminating to stop?
To not feel triggered by every interaction?
To have confidence in yourself, and in your reality?
What doors would open up for you to…
→ Be a more attuned, involved parent, instead of having nothing left in your emotional tank for your kids
→ Focus on growing your business or career, because you finally have the mental capacity to plan for the future
→ Invest in other (healthy) friendships, because you’re not constantly trying to manage the narcissist’s reactions
→ Focus on improving your health, because you finally believe in your own inherent worth as a person
→ Enjoy your life, because you’re finally out of survival mode and don’t feel the compulsive need to remain hypervigilant
The narcissist has already taken enough from you.
It’s time to recover the amazing, capable, inherently worthy person you were — and still are — underneath the narcissist’s lies.
But what could you do if the narcissist wasn’t in your head? Who could you be?
What would it feel like for the ruminating to stop?
To not feel triggered by every interaction?
To have confidence in yourself, and in your reality?
What doors would open up for you to…
→ Be a more attuned, involved parent, instead of having nothing left in your emotional tank for your kids
→ Focus on growing your business or career, because you finally have the mental capacity to plan for the future
→ Invest in other (healthy) friendships, because you’re not constantly trying to manage the narcissist’s reactions
→ Focus on improving your health, because you finally believe in your own inherent worth as a person
→ Enjoy your life, because you’re finally out of survival mode and don’t feel the compulsive need to remain hypervigilant
The narcissist has already taken enough from you.
It’s time to recover the amazing, capable, inherently worthy person you were — and still are — underneath the narcissist’s lies.
LET’S FACE THE FACTS
If you were the problem in this relationship, it would be fixed by now.
You’ve tried everything.
But you can’t fix it—because it’s not about you.
And the narcissist is only going to keep demanding more of your headspace, more of your capacity, and more of your energy.
It’s time to accept that the narcissist in your life is not going to change.
You can carve out a new path forward.
It is possible to start taking your life back.
…to stop taking responsibility for problems you didn’t create
…to shift out of chronic guilt and self-blame
…to regulate your nervous system
…to cultivate self-confidence
…to set healthy boundaries
…to show up differently
…to create inner calm
But first, you need to heal.
I’ll be here to lead the way, when you’re ready.
LET’S FACE THE FACTS
If you were the problem in this relationship, it would be fixed by now.
You’ve tried everything.
But you can’t fix it—because it’s not about you.
And the narcissist is only going to keep demanding more of your headspace, more of your capacity, and more of your energy.
It’s time to accept that the narcissist in your life is not going to change.
You can carve out a new path forward.
It is possible to start taking your life back.
…to stop taking responsibility for problems you didn’t create
…to shift out of chronic guilt and self-blame
…to regulate your nervous system
…to cultivate self-confidence
…to set healthy boundaries
…to show up differently
…to create inner calm
But first, you need to heal.
I’ll be here to lead the way, when you’re ready.
LET’S FACE THE FACTS
If you were the problem in this relationship, it would be fixed by now.
You’ve tried everything.
But you can’t fix it—because it’s not about you.
And the narcissist is only going to keep demanding more of your headspace, more of your capacity, and more of your energy.
It’s time to accept that the narcissist in your life is not going to change.
You can carve out a new path forward.
It is possible to start taking your life back.
…to stop taking responsibility for problems you didn’t create
…to shift out of chronic guilt and self-blame
…to regulate your nervous system
…to cultivate self-confidence
…to set healthy boundaries
…to show up differently
…to create inner calm
But first, you need to heal.
I’ll be here to lead the way, when you’re ready.
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Informative Note
Please note these group sessions are informative in nature and should not be considered psychotherapy or group psychotherapy. Chelsey is not acting in her capacity as a psychotherapist, but is instead offering education and facilitating discussions for wellness purposes. These sessions should not be considered a substitution for psychotherapy.
If you join this program, you acknowledge and agree to the following: You don’t have any current issues with self-harm or substances. You will be prompt, courteous, and kind to all group members. If you are disruptive, distracting, or harmful either in your conduct, verbal or written communication, or in any way, you will be dismissed with no refund.
Informative Note
Please note these group sessions are informative in nature and should not be considered psychotherapy or group psychotherapy. Chelsey is not acting in her capacity as a psychotherapist, but is instead offering education and facilitating discussions for wellness purposes. These sessions should not be considered a substitution for psychotherapy.
If you join this program, you acknowledge and agree to the following: You don’t have any current issues with self-harm or substances. You will be prompt, courteous, and kind to all group members. If you are disruptive, distracting, or harmful either in your conduct, verbal or written communication, or in any way, you will be dismissed with no refund.
Informative Note
Please note these group sessions are informative in nature and should not be considered psychotherapy or group psychotherapy. Chelsey is not acting in her capacity as a psychotherapist, but is instead offering education and facilitating discussions for wellness purposes. These sessions should not be considered a substitution for psychotherapy.
If you join this program, you acknowledge and agree to the following: You don’t have any current issues with self-harm or substances. You will be prompt, courteous, and kind to all group members. If you are disruptive, distracting, or harmful either in your conduct, verbal or written communication, or in any way, you will be dismissed with no refund.